Targeted harassment upon romantic rejection

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Targeted harassment upon romantic rejection

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Your in-game name: Nightshade
Your in-game Steam Community Link: http://steamcommunity.com/id/ladyladylady

Rulebreaker's Steam Community Link: http://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198235200552
Aliases: Ez, ezzy, puppetmaster, has even changed his name to my name in the past
Weird name changing to my name proof: http://prntscr.com/iw3cck

Server on which the rulebreaking occured: DB 162.248.92.127:27021

Witnesses:
Toxicwubs: http://steamcommunity.com/id/ItzToxicity
Deadedo, who was literally sitting beside me for a lot of this harassment: http://steamcommunity.com/id/miguet
SiennaThePup/Cyan: http://steamcommunity.com/id/princessjazzy
Jasmine, whom I've also witnessed telling off Ezzy for harassment in-game: http://steamcommunity.com/id/novajasmine

I don't have screenshot proof aside from the name changes, but try asking any of these witnesses what this guy is like and it should paint a clear enough mental portrait. I'm exhausted of dealing with this as soon as I get on to play a game in the mornings. He waits for me to log in to the server to join, will target me endlessly so I MUST divert my attention to him, and it's beginning to take a mental drain on me that I'm not going to let happen. I love FF's dodgeball server and I won't let this 11 year old kid push me off that easily. Please, just take a few minutes to talk to my witnesses about "Ezzy" and I don't think it's too out of line for this guy to get a permanent mute at the very heckin' least.

I've only had to make a report like this once in my 4 years of having this account on steam. I really hope this is not an ordeal for the admins and I would like to see it blow over smoothly in the end.
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Re: Targeted harassment upon romantic rejection

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I will respond properly when I get off work.
But in short, nightshade is right. Will update this post when I finish tonight

Edit:
Yes i agree with nightshade.
Ezzy has extreme problems with boundaries and how to act appropriate.
He has been harassing me for a couple of months now.
If you ignore what he's saying he targets you in game. He is constantly in your face, downspikes you or switches intentionally to get your attention.
He makes lots of inappropriate remarks and doesn't take no for an answer.

I've been ignoring him for a long time but he still tries to talk to me.
I've had him muted client-side and when he found out he started changing his name so when he killed me I couldn't help but to see what he wanted to tell me.
It's gotten to the point where I don't join the server if he is there.

The reason why I haven't taken action is because I thought it was mainly pointed towards me.
I'm a big girl and I got a pretty thick skin when it comes to these kind of things. But if it's now extending over to other players I think it's time to take action.
But I would prefer if it was done by a regular db admin and not myself or a global as it would need to be a proper conversation with ezzy about his behaviour and not just a silence/gag.
I am worried about him acting out in game though so that needs to be monitored.

This player has not been punished before I might add.
Last edited by Jasmine on Sun Mar 25, 2018 6:41 pm, edited 3 times in total.
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Re: Targeted harassment upon romantic rejection

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more screenshots just upon JOINING the server this morning:

http://prntscr.com/iwk2hi

http://prntscr.com/iwk32t

http://prntscr.com/iwk39t
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Re: Targeted harassment upon romantic rejection

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Under investigation.
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Re: Targeted harassment upon romantic rejection

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Don't know if this has been dealt with completely yet.
But here's some of his chatlogs.

16 Mar 2018 08:04:13 So I just love changing name and go to jasmine and downspike her
16 Mar 2018 08:30:14 I am going for NightShade ;3
16 Mar 2018 08:42:23 I will kill Night ;3
17 Mar 2018 07:14:50 because I kept downspiking her (Speaking about me)
19 Mar 2018 08:16:05 NO GO FUK URSELF NIGHT I FUCKING HATE U SO MUCH
19 Mar 2018 08:13:34 i fucking hate you so much n ight
24 Mar 2018 09:52:10 you do know that i have targeted jas for a long time

I couldn't be bothered going further back in his chathistory. But it's extensive with comments like this and also a good amount of chatspamming with binds.
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Re: Targeted harassment upon romantic rejection

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I mean hell, I ended up putting a chat log of him calling me a whore in my description box during a particularly frustrating morning. If I could get an update once this is resolved, even privately, I'd really appreciate the closure.
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We are currently handling this report, be patient.
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Re: Targeted harassment upon romantic rejection

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User has been informed that further harassment/toxicity will lead to an indisputable punishment.

Report handled. Locking.
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